A Happy & Prosperous New Year!

Wishing you a very happy and prosperous 2012 ... as we end and begin in a weaving of life.

"Making a fishing line from a piece of hair, twisting it both sunwise and moonwise - This is the way life is. We weave together sunrise and moonrise, man and woman, summer and winter, and in that weaving there is life.” - A Mohawk observation/quote.

Why Family Business?

Approximately 85% of all businesses are family-owned - from neighborhood mom-and-pop stores, to the millions of small and midsize companies, as well as the household names such Wal-Mart and Ford Motor Company.

While not unlike most small businesses, less than 30% make it past the third generation. Family-owned companies, however, enjoy a comparative advantage over their management-based counterparts. A success stemming from shared values, industry knowledge, and skills learned over generations, as well as other traditional competitive advantages of small business.

Why family business? I grew up in a third-generation family construction business, listening to my father talk about business around the dinner table.

I started and sold an environmental management business, and completed training as a business coach. Since 1996 I’ve worked with closely-held and family business owners on leadership development and business growth; and now focus exclusively on working with 2nd-4th generation family-led businesses, out of a sense of a family business’s overall value to society. I also lecture on family business management in the Zicklin School of Business, Baruch College, City University of New York.

Why family business? Intriguing and extremely valuable, beyond their competitive advantage, family businesses contribute to the social and economic fabric of the community in which exist, upholding a sense of trust and unfailing values.

Entrepreneurs and owners of family-led firms rightfully focus on revenue and growth of their business. Unfortunately many never learned the unique needs and strategies for multi-generational success in a family business – strategies such as a requirement that family members wanting to join the family business work, get a raise and promotion somewhere else, thereby averting concerns of nepotism, or clear roles for family members that support the growth needs of the business. This is important, for if the business does not prosper than the family will not be prosperous.

The Little Red Book of Family Business

“The fundamental task of parents is to raise responsible adults who have high self-esteem and can function independently in this world,” David Bork, The Little Red Book of Family Business.

The Family Firm Institute, a professional organization for individuals involved in family businesses have a list of recommended books on family businesses. The Little Red Book of Family Business is one of them. It is a pocket-sized book of wisdom about the complex and rewarding world of family businesses.

The advice in the book was culled from the author’s 40+ years of experience working as a family business counselor, covering topics such as family-work boundaries, competence, competition, being rich, sibling relationships, and spousal roles. Each point is brief, to-the-point, insightful and sometimes humorous. Their strength is probably as a conversation-starter for an indepth dialogue with family members.

The main focus of the book is helping owners manage their families rather than their business. Interference in business decisions, double standards in employment, and succession wars can make families the worst enemies of their own businesses.

Some of the advice from Bork includes:

• If the business does not prosper, the family will not be prosperous
• Money is a tool, but it should never be used as a hammer
• If the family ownership is used in marketing, then it is important for all family members to practice the values the family claims to have, and
• Sparking solitary soul-searching- from the section on wills: "Don't try to legislate from 'the other side.'”

Bork's red book doesn't provide a solution to every problem, nor does it claim to. "This is a little book, not a big one," he writes. But its pithy phrases provide a benchmark for determining the strengths and weaknesses of a family's relationship with their business.

Available from Amazon and other book sellers.

When Family Issues Overflow Into the Business

In the midst of a fullstaff meeting Jim’s father turned to him and announced loud enough for all to hear, “You’ll never havewhat it takes to run this business.”


When familyissues overflow into the business it hurts the business, the employees as wellas all family members, jeopardizing the sustainability of the family and thebusiness.

Family businessesprovide a unique cultural and economic tapestry within our society. Planning,starting with an end in mind of how the wealth within the business and familywill transition to the next generations, creates greater well-being within thefamily from one generation to the next.

Most programs and training of business owners and entrepreneurs, however, stop with maximizing the growthof the business - short of achieving the sustainability of the family and thebusiness.


The fact is, though, family-business Best Management Practices, whichsupport the growth of the business, grow the estate of the shareholders,promote the health and well-being of family members, and increase familyharmony, can be learned.